‘FALLING IN LOVE’ is not possible

The reality of Love is high-frequency, it is the building block of our very existence and is the essence of the All That Is, the Christ spirit, the spirit of Creation within us. So we literally, can not ‘fall’ in love. We can only RISE in love.

When we experience the FEELING of falling in love, and our heart beats and our gut responds, we are actually experiencing a chemical response this other person activates in us. It can cause us to Fall Into Lust.

Why? They are activating our old, childhood wounding. Intimate partners energetically become the parent that we were always seeking love and validation from but never received.

And when we finally receive this it FEELS LIKE BLISS! We are whole again and we Finally Received What We Always Wanted!

Now, we are becoming addicted, desperately seeking that feeling, that victory, believing life was not ok before this New Feeling. And we are not realizing Our Soul is the TRUE Source of This Feeling.

We get addicted to the potential and get stuck on the rollercoaster of almost-victory. Because no matter how hard we try, Falling Into Lust will never create the stability and personal power we truly crave. Real love is So grounding, is So Full, does not require appeasement at all costs, and does not throw us back into our old childhood abandonment cycles — though we Will meet people to bring us back there to heal that. And we may love them.

But we will keep butting up against the glass ceiling of ‘is it ever enough’, ‘will it ever care for ALL of me?’ ‘can it hold all parts of me without limits?’ When the answer is No, it is limitation not love.

True love is pure, does not coax, push, limit or manipulate you.

It is Expansive and Inclusive.

So go ahead, heal that thing that keeps you in the cycle!

GO DEEPER INTO THE LOVE THAT YOU ARE, already.

Meet your old ways of being and give yourself the love and clarity to say Hey — that wasn’t ok, but I am here for Me Now.

By doing this we open the door to RISE IN LOVE once again — because we have re-activated our pilot wave, the truth of who we are. We Are Love, and each time we begin to desperately seek it, we MUST step back and find our Selves again.

Any person ‘leading’ you to desperately seek them (consciously or not), is out of balance themselves and we can magnetize and co-create that imbalance if it is already familiar with our nervous system. (At least in my experience.)

SO GO LOVE YOURSELF LIKE CRAZY!

What one little thing can you do for you today that reminds you how much you are valued, delighted in, fun, playful, free and Fully Loved?